Help! My Child Is Struggling at School

A viewer writes:

Soon my son will be starting school again, and he is struggling. He would much prefer summer to last a few more months.

Every year, his teacher says he does not pay attention in class. He often sits through lessons and does not understand what is happening. Unless his teacher emails me his homework assignment, he will not get it done. He rarely remembers things people tell him, and his grades are not where they should be.

His poor grades are affecting his self-esteem. I have heard about Central Auditory Processing Disorder (CAPD). I also have Attention Deficit Disorder myself. I wonder whether he could have either of these conditions, or even a hearing loss, since he has had frequent ear infections and sometimes does not seem to hear me when I call his name.

How do I sort this out? What professionals can help?

Response

Your concerns are understandable, and you are asking exactly the right questions. The symptoms you describe can occur for many different reasons, including hearing loss, Central Auditory Processing Disorder (CAPD), Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), learning disabilities, language disorders, or a combination of these factors. Because these conditions can look similar, a comprehensive evaluation is often the best place to start.

A good first step is to speak with your child’s pediatrician and schedule a comprehensive hearing evaluation with an audiologist.

An audiologist can determine whether your child has a hearing loss and whether hearing difficulties may be contributing to academic challenges. Hearing loss affects a person’s ability to detect sounds, while CAPD affects how the brain processes and interprets sounds that are heard normally.

Children with CAPD may have difficulty:

  • Understanding speech in noisy environments
  • Following multi-step verbal directions
  • Distinguishing between similar-sounding words
  • Remembering spoken information
  • Determining where sounds are coming from
  • Understanding subtle speech cues such as tone of voice

CAPD is diagnosed through specialized testing conducted by an audiologist with expertise in auditory processing disorders.

ADHD, on the other hand, affects attention, concentration, and executive functioning across many situations and sensory modalities. Children with ADHD may struggle to focus not only on spoken information but also on visual tasks, reading assignments, organization, and task completion.

Because symptoms of hearing loss, CAPD, ADHD, learning disabilities, and language disorders often overlap, many children benefit from a multidisciplinary evaluation. Depending on your child’s needs, this evaluation may involve:

  • An audiologist
  • A speech-language pathologist
  • A psychologist or neuropsychologist
  • School personnel and educators
  • A pediatrician or developmental specialist

The good news is that effective supports are available regardless of the diagnosis. These may include:

  • Classroom accommodations
  • Written instructions and visual supports
  • Preferential seating
  • Remote microphone or FM technology
  • Speech-language therapy
  • Organizational and attention-support strategies
  • Individualized educational plans (IEPs) or Section 504 accommodations for some conditions when appropriate

Most importantly, try not to focus solely on the grades. The goal is to understand your child’s strengths and challenges so that the right supports can be put in place. With appropriate evaluation, intervention, and accommodations, many children experience significant improvements in both academic performance and self-confidence.

In summary: Hearing loss affects the ability to hear sounds. CAPD affects the brain’s ability to interpret sounds that are heard. ADHD affects attention and executive functioning across auditory, visual, and other everyday activities. A thorough evaluation can help identify which factors are contributing to your son’s struggles and guide the most effective treatment and educational support plan.